Cooking with children can be a scary concept, isn't it?
Don't touch that!
Hot! Stay back!
Put that away, we're eating soon!
No, you can't eat peanut butter with your finger!
*ahem*
The kitchen is an attracting place for kids, chock-filled with loads of things they shouldn't play with, and appliances that can seriously hurt them. Of course, that doesn't stop them from being curious about them though, does it? Hot stove, oven, glass and such does not make for a safe place for children to play. At all. But oh, how they're enthralled with the food haven in our homes, aren't they?
What to do? Cuz ya can't banish them from it altogether, y'know?
Taking the proper precautions, it can be a beautiful experience made of memories. Really, there's nothing better than letting your child help you while preparing the family's dinner and spending quality time with your toddler, empowering her to make her feel like she's a huge help, even if it is in a small way.
And there's no cost involved, other than taking a few extra minutes to prepare something. Really, the cost of a few minutes of your time is priceless to their self-esteem. Go on, let them help, it's really easy. Look!
Let them help you make mashed potatoes, by putting the chopped potatoes into the pot.

Our toddler dove head first into her task, and proudly picked up every one to place carefully into the pot, except for the one she tried, after seeing her dad eat one raw...


Her baby fingers manipulating each potato piece, wrangling them into the pot one (or ten) at a time, like she was the cowboy corraling the animals in the right direction...



She took her job seriously, and diligently helped each piece in proudly. It took maybe 5 or so minutes extra, but the end result? A toddler who felt prouder than proud, chest out, smiling widely, and a parent thankful for the adoration by way of baby hugs in return.
You don't have to whip out all the gates, locks and gadgets-a-plenty, creating this huge kid-proofed experience to enable your child to help you. You can simply plop them on the counter beside you (perhaps a hand on their leg for protection), and in a span of five minutes, fill them with the ability that they are master and commanders of your kitchen, no matter how small the task may seem to you, it means the world to them.
And to you.
Because in that instant? You're teaching your child, and that is invaluable time spent.
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34 comments:
Yummy. Sweet photos. I adore the last one that is close up with her fingers holding the potatoes. It's a great shot.
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I agree... My daughter is still early in her two's so she can't help with much, but I do let her help me sprinkle things on the food like cheese or like you said... putting things in the pot. I let her stir also with my hand around hers. It's actually a great bonding experience! And you're training your kids young to be able to handle themselves in the kitchen as young adults.
Happy WW!!
my kids always want to help too - the OCD in me kicks in and I can't take the messes
I love the close ups, fun pictures.
that's too sweet! My two year old likes to help also. I try to let her help as much as I can. Great sentiment in these photos
My kids love to help in the kitchen. My son is 3 and he loves it.
Love the pictures of her helping--what a big girl. TFS
Glad to see I'm not the only one whose child ate part of a raw potato this week. Great post, thanks for sharing!
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Great pictures!
We posted almost the same photos.. My son "cooked" his breakfast too. It was messy afterwards but both of us had a great time. Happy WW!
awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww lovely :d
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Great photos!!! I too love raw potatoes...yummy. She did good.
My wordless is posted. There is a direct link at the top of my blog post that will take you to my wordless photo if you'd like to skip the test I provided above it. Happy Wednesday.
Wow, I really like your blog! I just found it from 7 Clown Circus, and I can't wait to read more! I love today's post, because my toddler and I love doing just the same thing in the kitchen together! I'm off to read more of your posts :)
Oh, before kids I would dream about happy fun time in the kitchen. Now I find myself screaming to the hubs-"get them out of here! They're going to hurt themselves!"
My 3yo son always gets excited when he sees tomatillos or corn in our grocery bags; he knows that's his job.
I need to do another cooking project with him. Thanks for reminding me!
My kids love to cook!!! And I love it too, it's good quality time together! Great shots! Happy WW to ya!
Why can't you eat peanut butter with your finger? LOL
You're such a nice mom. The kitchen is the one room I can't stand other people to be in there with me - not even my husband. I have a rhythm and a system, and other people just mess that up.
Good tip. =)
I need to let my little guy in the kitchen more to help. He loves to help.
I love how you capturred her trying the raw potato-- hahaha!
Happy Wednesday!
Great pictures and a great way to get kids involved.
I love cooking with my son. When he was younger he always wanted to cook with me but now he is too busy sometimes. :) And he is only four.
My daughter loves to help me cook too. I hope I can teach her because my Mom never taught me how to cook. I learned from my Grandma. Happy WW!
Yep! We do simple things like this too and I love what it helps them to do and understand. They DO something to help the family--then we TEACH them about their responsibilities to themselves and their family. It works well---they already repeat and practice those words with each other and friends!
I love those little figures holding the large potato chunks. Wonderful photos.
Lovely post! I try to remind myself to look for such opportunities. My 25mo is so self-sufficient she's usually feeding herself out of the fridge as I'm trying to make the meal, but it's always fun when I can get her to help make the salad or even set the table, or at least put the ketchup (her favorite) on the table.
It truly IS amazing how they can get SO much out of helping in just one small way. They do feel as though they have "conquered the world"!!
My ex-boyfriend's son used to help me cook ALL the time, and he just loved it! We even got him his own little kitchen stool that looked like a little oven..TOO CUTE!
So sweet! I've written about this for Sprout - I love cooking with Sweetpea and as long as I have the right kind of recipe it is so fun and rewarding!
I need to remember to let my daughter help sometimes too.
Great photos! My kids love to help in the kitchen. They like to peel the corn for corn on the cob. And I always let them put the stuff back in the fridge and get stuff I need out.
haha I have to let my toddler in the kitchen to help or else there is a melt down! I put up a video on my blog of her eating the flour, and baking soda she was "stirring"
All I have to do is let her "help" with one thing and she is good. I can make dinner in peace.
Very cute! I found your blog through MomDot's Link-a-thon!
Ashley
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So cute - it's never to early to teach them in the kitchen. I have yet to really tackle cooking with the kids...I think I'm a little too much of a neat freak. I guess I should let go and enjoy like you did.
My kids are always coming in hords to help me in the kitchen. It's double the work, but double the fun too. They're almost getting old enough to help with clean up too!:)
Great post! My girls are always asking if they can help me cook. Sometimes it's hard to think of ways they can help. Thanks for the encouragement!
So true! I love cooking with my 4-year-old. I'm also a Girl Scout leader and love cooking with the girls--some of whom get really excited because they aren't allowed to do "the dangerous parts" at home or because their families just don't really cook! A big bonus I've found is that kids are much more likely to eat a food they've helped make.
Thanks for the reminder that it's not just about getting dinner ready as fast as possible but taking time to teach our children
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